Nervous for a first date with your crush?
First dates can be tricky. If only you knew exactly what was going to happen, then you could plan out everything in advance. But first dates are kind of like playing the lottery. There is a saying.. “First impression is last impression”. With that in mind, it is vital to be fully prepared to make a great impression on each date you go on.
So, here are some dating tips for men for making an impression that will last long.
Dress Properly and Be Confident
You may think, “First date! I need to look amazing!” Dress appropriately for your date, and you should probably let your date know where you are planning to take her in advance so she can also dress appropriately. Make sure you are well shaved and clean. You must be confident enough to share your feelings with her, to present yourself.
Don’t be lazy in taking the decisions. Decide the place according to you and your partner’s choice. On your first date, take her to the location where you both can talk freely. Take her somewhere you both feel comfortable and somewhere you can easily afford. Parks or coffee shops are good place for a first date. Trust your date not to suggest something where you’d really feel lost or bored — she wants to have a good time, too!
Mind Your Body Language and Act GentleWhen she arrive,greet her with a smile. Show her from the door who you really are, and be honest about your intentions no matter what they my be. If she looks nice, tell her that. Maybe open the door as she walks through, or offer your arm as she steps down from the curb. If you are dining out for your first date, hold the chair out for your date and help her sit. Never portray yourself larger than what you really are. Don’t try to be someone else and expect perfection.
Ask Questions and listen
Remember, when you’re on a date with someone, they should the centre of attention. Ask them about themselves and pay attention to their answers. And don’t try to get a sneaky look at your watch or phone. Listen to the replies too and don’t just look for an opening to start discussing yourself. Do not talk about your job for more than a few minutes. If you seem curious about the woman sitting across from you, she will like it. For sure. Dont dare to look at other girl on your date. A date is not payment for future pleasures, it is a way to get to know someone to gauge compatibility. Don’t talk about marriage unless you mean it.
Handle The Bill Gracefully
If it’s a first date, it won’t do you any harm to pay – or at least offer. Quibbling with who should pick up the bill is a bad look and it’s hardly going to give the best first impression. Take care of the bill without comment. Don’t mention splitting the bill. If the lady suggests paying part of the bill do not accept the offer. If she insists, allow her to pay what she wishes.
At last.. Don’t forget to call her and tell her how you felt.
Make your date perfect with these dating tips..
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